Wisdom Podcasts

Elvis and Wing-Tip Shoes

Elvis and Wing-Tip Shoes

This is Elvis Evans. I am a former student of yours from way back in the days of 1977-78.
I do not think I ever had an opportunity to thank you. You were instrumental in the successes I have enjoyed in my life. In 1977, I was a lost kid looking for someone to understand me. I wore a hearing aide, which was an anomaly back then. I was also epileptic and wore orthopedic shoes, which back then only came in one style; wing tip.

Caregivers Taking Care of Caregivers

Caregivers Taking Care of Caregivers

Don’t overlook the major caregiver. He or she needs some uplifting too! The most difficult time for my wife (Jean) and me was dealing with the two-and-a-half-year losing battle with cancer waged by our nineteen -year-old son, Paul. Within days of the diagnosis, his left leg was amputated two-thirds above the knee, and after metastasis he endured a series of six lung surgeries. My response was to personally appropriate the stories of Jesus’ encounters with heartbroken parents: Mark 5:23 became, “My son is at the point of death. Come and lay your hands on him, so that he may be made well, and live.”

Avoid Using Cliches and Quick Fixes

Avoid Using Cliches and Quick Fixes

When someone we care for is hurting, we are tempted to rush in with a "quick fix" to help make the person feel better. When a person has lost someone or something important, he or she grieves, and you can't immediately fix it. Grief is a journey that takes time—lots...